Thu Nov 29, 2012 3:46 am by beaverpond
Man I really hate this time of the year. Today is the 15th anniversary of my grandfather's passing and then next week will be 1 year without my closest uncle and the week after that it will be 2 years without one of my closest aunts.
Getting into the Christmas Spirit is so much more difficult for my family. My Mom and Dad no longer want to even put up a tree or decorate the house. Usually they will at least mail out Christmas cards...not the last couple of years.
I remembered the few times my grandmother was going to be alone for Christmas, I was so ticked with my relatives for not wanting to be with her, that I had to use up personal time just so she would not be alone. I so miss her as well.
I remember the year my grandfather passed away, my grandmother came to stay with my parents for a month starting just before Christmas. I remember the fun we had as we went Christmas shopping at the Maine Mall and how we went out to eat at this seafood restaurant afterwards. That was the year and the shopping trip I bought my twin nephews a four foot long fire truck that had all the bells, engine sounds, sirens, movement, ect... My grandmother says to me "your sister is going to hate you". I said "yup"... with a sinister laugh. Thirteen years later they still have that fire truck and it still works.
This is same grandmother who loved the show Knight Rider because she wanted a car like that, that could talk to you, drive for you, and get you places in a hurry, say nothing for going faster than those NASCARs go. This is the same grandmother that taught me everything I know about cooking.
Then there was my grandfather, in a lot of ways I wish I could have learned more from him as I have learned so much more after he passed. However, this was the man that taught me how to use a push mower, then taught me how to use the riding lawn mower and some of its attachments, he even taught me several tricks of the trade when it came to gardening and they had a huge garden. It had strawberries, blackberries, blueberries, raspberries, yellow beans, green beans, pea pods (shell), sugar snap peas, butter sugar corn, egg plant, zuccinni squash, summer squash, acorn squash, spaghetti squash, yellow onions, red onions, scallions, loose leaf lettuce, romaine lettuce, cucumbers, tomatoes, red peppers, green peppers and this is just what I can remember. He spent a lot of time teaching me about what kind of fertilizer would work best for what plants including natural fertilizers like fish heads and banana peels. He also taught me what works well at keeping certain bugs away from different plants, but to be careful because it will draw them to others...so the lay out of your garden is also important.
I know this is one my longest posts, but I really feel depressed today and miss both my grandparents dearly. I am supposed to get together with my parents today, oh this should be interesting. This will be either all we talk about or the subject we all avoid. Time will tell.
I got the butter, clams, shrimp, scallops, and corn...so where is my lobster